Simone De Beauvoir, Michel Foucault, Adrienne
Rich
One is not born a woman, de Beauvoir wrote,
she becomes one.
“What is the relationship between the myth of
the Eternal Feminine and the lived experience of actual women?” De Beauvoir
asked the question in 1949.
Is the question such that its essence is
the stuff of human existence, and thus always there and unanswerable in definitive
manner? If so, might this be because patriarchy is of such entrenched nature in
Western society that it defines society itself? Then, is it that despite all of
the progress that has been made since 1949, not much in terms of freeing women
from stereotype has been achieved?
Feminism has faltered since 1980s, it would
seem. Actions on its behalf since that time have taken for granted so much that contemporary activity undertaken for its survival has been tantamount to paying down the interest instead
of paying off capital. It would seem that the outstanding sum will never be settled.
Until something changes, in some aspect, the mythic view will prevail that
women are defined by that which men are not – in the sense of
whatever is leftover and not needed to describe and confirm male strength,
vision and power. How could this be otherwise if, as in de Beauvoir’s view,
the body is ‘situated in culture and history’ (Leitch 2001: 1405). Actions
changed, thinking changed, and yet we continue to propulgate a sameness to our
basic thinking. Unless, of course, there is indeed an actual inherent difference between
the sexes that we cannot do or think otherwise.
The risk to women of the gains that have been
achieved are significant; the risk of losing themselves paramount. Rich
writes: “No woman is really an insider in
the institutions fathered by masculine consciousness. When we allow ourselves
to believe we are, we lose touch with parts of ourselves defined as
unacceptable by that consciousness; with the vital toughness and visionary
strength of the angry grandmothers, the shamanesses, the fierce marketwomen of
the Ibo's Women's War, the marriage-resisting women silkworkers of
prerevolutionary China, the millions of widows, midwives, and the women healers
tortured and burned as witches for three centuries in Europe.”
Rich, in her writing, seems also to give
example of de Beauvoir’s description of the body situated in culture and
history, and of Foucault’s idea that the body and sexuality are social
constructs, along with Lévi-Strauss’s idea of ‘female exchange’, the
idea of marrying out of one’s family, tribe, or clan. He proclaimed it to be the
bedrock upon which society is built, the incarnation of the incest taboo. His construction has shaped how society is viewed. As has heterosexuality, Rich believed, because it has been entrenched in culture and history. As such, it has
ensured that men maintain their power over and right to women’s bodies by
insisting on heterosexuality as the only legitimate, and legal, form of partnership.
Bibliography
Leitch, Vincent B. 2001.
The Norton Anthology of Theory and
Criticism. New York: W.W. Norton and Company, Inc.